self-love and dating coach Lauren Lake
Lauren Lake on her wedding day kissing her husband

My mission is to spread the message that women are worthy of having healthy and supportive partners. In today’s society, women have become so desensitized to being mistreated and have become conditioned to believe that they must accept the bare minimum from a partner.

As an Army Veteran (serving in the military since 2006), I understand the importance of resilience and overcoming adversity. I’ve personally experienced trauma, domestic violence, and a pattern of toxic, unhealthy relationships but have since found a healthy and supportive husband. I credit my husband with showing me that I was never asking for too much, I was just asking the wrong people for it. My personal journey has inspired me to help others who are going through similar challenges and who are seeking their own supportive partner.

Hey, I’m Lauren

Through my work, I help my clients shift their mindset from one of scarcity, worrying that they will never find “the one”, to an abundance mindset where they recognize just how much they have to offer; releasing the limiting belief that they are waiting to be chosen. After working with me, my clients go out into the world empowered to confidently evaluate potential partners and actually enjoy the dating process. If you fall in love with yourself and your life, settling is just not an option!

I am a certified life coach through the International Coach Federation (ICF) and have been a practicing attorney since 2015. With a trauma informed approach to coaching, I’ve have also worked with victims of sexual assault and domestic violence, offering support and guidance to those who have been through difficult experiences.

I look forward to helping you raise your standards!

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